It’s funny…just when you think things are going to be ok…… something comes along and blows the hole damm thing up… You find love, you lose love, repeat… when you get to where I’m at in life…. love is really just a magical thing…but it’s all about the adjustments….. lets face it…. you can’t ask someone to completely change what has taken them a life time to form…. but during the time of the greatness generation people stuck together through the good, the bad, the poor, times knowing that with their love and commitment that they would get through it…… together… and always fight the good fight…. because it’s easy to have friends when your at the top of your game…. but the ones will still be there even if life has thrown you down…. in my life I have been at the top…. and most definitely at the bottom…. starting over is just a matter of taking the first step…… sometimes the part of moving on is the hardest….. so I say again… It’s always easier said, Then Done… again last night I found myself at Lake Merritt…. it was really late…. after midnight…. for the most part it was very quite…. and there is the photo I took….. just a black straw hat……on the ground….. in a very special place from the past…….